Reflexivity-
Consider (a, b) as an arbitrary element of N × N
Here, (a, b) ∈ N × N where (a, b) ∈ N
It can be written as
a + b = b + a
We get (a, b) R (a, b) for all (a, b) ∈ N × N
Hence, R is reflexive on N × N
Symmetry-
Consider (a, b), (c, d) ∈ N × N such that (a, b) R (c, d)
It can be written as
a + d = b + c and c + b = d + a
We get
(c, d) R (a, b)
(a, b) R (c, d) => (c, d) R (a, b) for all (a, b), (c, d) ∈ N × N
Hence, R is symmetric on N × N.
Transitive-
Consider (a, b), (c, d), (r, f) ∈ N × N such that (a, b) R (c, d) and (c, d) R (e, f)
It can be written as
a + d = b + c and c + f = d + e
By adding both
(a + d) + (c + f) = (b + c) + (d + e)
On further calculation
a + f = b + e where (a, b) R (e, f)
So (a, b) R (c, d) and (c, d) R (e, f) we get (a, b) R (e, f) for all (a, b), (c, d), (e, f) ∈ N × N
Hence, R is transitive on N × N.
Therefore, R is reflexive, symmetric and transitive is an equivalence relation on N × N.